Well, as it turns out, none of these things are true. Neither the assembly guide, nor the photos of your setup.
My car was built for 3 point belts, but the builder/po decided to install 4 point harnesses instead. So, he drilled a hole for the inside harness, and re-used the outside seatbelt mounting point. The rollbar has a bolt behind the seatbelt mount that, might be 5/16, and it might be 3/8. I have a set of those amazon thread sizers, but they're absolutely useless in this situation. I bought some cheap rando hardware store bolts to figure out fit. Since I live near nothing, just waiting for them to show up.
Oh the joy of old kit cars built by people that think they're engineers.