And I am trying to state that it is not only the 10 commandments or christianity at work. Most civilized societies have gravitated towards fairly similar value systems since before christianity and will continue to do so well whether or not they have heard of Jesus.
Plus what you call christian values (and I call social values) have changed radically over time (slavery, segregation, gay marriage) while the bible and the 10 commandments have not which to me is more proof that social value systems are not tied to christianity or any single religion. They are certainly influenced by various religions including Christianity but they are also impacted by leaders and philosophers (Confucius, Lincoln) so to call them only "Christian values" does a disservice to everyone else that has affected our society.