Paul,
May I also offer my condolences on the loss of your daughter. I do hope that my lighthearted joking around has not offended; if so, my deepest apologies. Please be assured, my related posts are in jest.
While I can’t relate to your loss, I can relate (to some extent) as to what alcohol can do to a family. Let’s just say that my father had a very hard childhood.
As for me, I’ll have my family along also and my choice of beverages for the duration of the event will consist of copious amounts of water, juice, coffee, tea . . . . . . . and if I want to really get wild and crazy and let my hair grow, Diet Coke! :seeya: