I usually look forward to Thanksgiving. It is my favorite holiday of the year we gather with all our family. Aunts, uncles, grand kids, moms and dads usually around 50 of us meet at someones home and cook a huge meal. We visit, eat and visit some more. The guys watch the football games and women talk about women stuff.
This year was very different however. My Grandmother 86 and my youngest aunt 61 were one the way to another aunts house for a birthday party on Wednesday the 25th. They were on a two lane highway when the rear drivers side tire tread seperated causing the vehicle to spin out of control rolling once before taking out a telephone pole. My aunt died at the scene. My grandmother died the next day after 22 units of blood.
If that wasnt bad enough shortly after making funeral arrangements my mother went into sudden cardiac arrest. Her sisters performed cpr until the fire deptarment arrived. They worked my mom for a few minutes and got a pulse back and transported her to the hospital. She stayed in a coma for a day and has been slowly coming out of it. She is up and talking, walking and eating very well she has pretty good long term memory. Her short term memory isnt doing as well. The doctors think with a month or so in rehab she should recover very well.
Thanksgiving will be very different for the next few years, but we are thankful that we didnt have to bury 3 loved ones in one day. We are also very thankful for the hundreds of our friends from our churches and work associates that were there in a blink of an eye to lend a hand.