John, you did chose the proper location for a thread of this nature. Having lived in the South all my life, I don't have your experience of traveling, but I do read the papers so to speak.
There is no such thing as fairness on this earth. Each society has it's class or caste system. If you really want to be a pessimist you may say, "Life's a b!tch, then you die"
Having said that, Don't give up! Make some lemonade.